A scared newbie's guide to starting D&D:
"My heart was beating just a bit faster. My throat? Decidedly dry. My hands? Oh Lord, what do I do with my hands?
What sort of event could put me in such a state?
1. A job interview.
2. A first date.
3. Climbing into a rocket about to go into space.
4. My first time going to play D&D.
The answer, I'm not proud to say, was number four. I can't fully explain it either. Anyone who knows me will tell you I am an outgoing person; an extrovert in just about every way. But Dungeons and Dragons? It kind of terrified me, and talking with other friends who are new to the game or considering it, I hear similar stories.
My boyfriend, Matthew, is the one who found the Meetup group for local D&D and other role playing games. He'd been talking about the game for years and even considered DMing a 3.5 session with our friends a few times. I thought it sounded fun but he had experience with the game from childhood. Most people I knew who played D&D had done so in high school or earlier. I felt like I had missed the boat maybe. All I knew about the game was that it involved dice and role playing a character with other people.
This is the knowledge I walked in with that first Wednesday we went to Game HQ for D&D night. I timidly followed Matthew in. Right away we were greeted with a smile by one of the nicest people I've ever met, Robert. He got us our DCI cards and took us to a table to play. I couldn't believe that we could just dive right in. Our DM had some ready-made characters for us to play and we rushed into the dungeon to help the others fight off some baddies.
I was afraid of admitting that I didn't know anything. And I do mean anything. What's initiative? What do these numbers mean? Is this a d8 or d10? However, everyone was extremely patient and kind. No one made me feel like I had a dumb question. Instead, I think they were all happy to share their knowledge and bring in new people. We've been playing every week for about two months now and I can't believe I was ever nervous. I have fun each week. Yes, sometimes I still forget which dice to use or need someone to help explain my spells, but I'm learning. We've met incredible new friends and I can't wait for the next Wednesday night to play again.
Curious about D&D but feeling nervous too? Take it from me, you won't regret giving it a chance. I've never met a more welcoming community. Find a group near you [On the Links Page]. Happy gaming!"
Amber has it right gang, We love new players more than anything! The link she provided is on the Links Page. Thanks Amber for sharing your experience!
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